What if ambition isn't the problem—the penalty for having it is? In this episode, finance expert and cultural critic Stefanie O'Connell Rodriguez joins us to unpack her groundbreaking work on the ambition penalty—the hidden tax women pay for wanting more in their careers, finances, and lives. Through data and lived experience, we explore why mothers face the steepest costs, losing up to $500,000 over a lifetime while their male counterparts receive a fatherhood bonus. Stefanie reveals how invisible labor subsidizes men's success, why burnout is a systemic issue rather than personal failure, and how dangerous narratives like the "soft life" trend mask the structural barriers pushing women out of paid work. This conversation challenges the myth of choice and meritocracy, offering a clear-eyed look at what it really takes to dismantle the systems that punish women's ambition.

In this episode, Cristina and her co-hosts Jess, Tiffany, and Jamie dig into the question every modern mom wrestles with: is social media helping me cope—or making things worse? From stress scrolling to algorithm overload, they unpack the emotional side of digital habits and offer actionable tools for getting back in the driver’s seat. Whether you're in a late-night TikTok spiral or just want to use your phone more intentionally, this episode offers validation, laughter, and a new mantra to live by: Control the Scroll.